"Hey guys, I'm stumped here. I've got a DB setup on a VPS and I'm trying to connect to it via an external IP, but MySQL just won't connect no matter what I try. Anyone else run into this problem or know of a fix?"
"Hey guys, I've been there too. Double-check your MySQL server and firewall settings, make sure port 3306 is open for incoming connections. Also, you might need to add an allowance for incoming MySQL connections on your router if you're behind one."
"Dude, have you checked the MySQL config file to see if the hostname or IP address is being set to a loopback address? Also, try using a username/password that's not the default one and see if that resolves the issue. Been there, done that, lol."
"Hey OP, have you checked your MySQL port (3306 by default) is open on your router and that your external IP is not blocked by a firewall? Also, make sure your MySQL connection is set to use your external IP instead of localhost."
"Hey, had a similar issue a while back. Make sure your MySQL user has a grant for the external IP and the port is open on your firewall. Also, check your MySQL bind address setting, might be the issue."
"Yo, have you tried updating your MySQL server configs to allow remote connections? I remember I had a similar issue a while back and it was just a matter of enabling the right settings in the my.cnf file. Make sure the firewall's not blocking it too"
"Dude, are you trying to connect through the public IP or the private IP of your DB server? Make sure your DB server is configured to accept connections from external IPs, or you might need to set up a VPN or a reverse proxy."
"Hey OP, have you tried changing the MySQL bind-address to your external IP in the my.cnf file? Also, check your firewall settings to ensure mysql isn't blocked from accessing the external IP."